Marmelstein v. Tendler, 16 N.Y.3d 16 (2010)
A fiduciary relationship between a cleric and a congregant requires specific factual allegations demonstrating de facto control and dominance by the cleric over a uniquely vulnerable congregant, beyond the scope of a typical clergy-congregant relationship.
Summary
Adina Marmelstein sued Rabbi Mordecai Tendler and his synagogue, alleging breach of fiduciary duty, fraud, and emotional distress stemming from a 3.5-year sexual relationship. Marmelstein claimed Tendler, acting as her counselor, advised that sexual relations would improve her chances of marriage. The court dismissed the claims, finding the fraud claim barred by the “heart balm” statute and the fiduciary duty claim insufficiently pleaded because Marmelstein did not demonstrate the unique vulnerability required to establish a cleric’s de facto control and dominance. The court emphasized the need to distinguish actionable fiduciary breaches from non-actionable seductive conduct, even if morally reprehensible.
Facts
Adina Marmelstein sought advice from Rabbi Mordecai Tendler starting in 1994, initially regarding personal issues. Tendler later recruited her to his synagogue in 1996. Marmelstein alleges Tendler counseled her on personal, legal, and financial matters, including her desire to marry and have children. She claims Tendler initiated a sexual relationship under the guise of “sexual therapy” to improve her attractiveness to men, which lasted from November 2001 to May 2005. Tendler allegedly threatened her with social ostracization if she disclosed the affair. After the affair ended, Marmelstein alleges her reputation was damaged and she left the synagogue.
Procedural History
Marmelstein sued Tendler and his synagogue in Supreme Court, which dismissed the fraud claim but allowed the breach of fiduciary duty and intentional infliction of emotional distress claims to proceed. The Appellate Division reversed, dismissing the remaining causes of action. Marmelstein appealed to the New York Court of Appeals. The Court of Appeals affirmed the Appellate Division’s decision.
Issue(s)
1. Whether Marmelstein sufficiently pleaded a cause of action for breach of fiduciary duty against Tendler, based on their clergy-congregant relationship and his alleged counseling.
2. Whether Tendler’s conduct constituted intentional infliction of emotional distress.
Holding
1. No, because Marmelstein’s allegations failed to demonstrate that Tendler exercised de facto control and dominance over her, making her uniquely vulnerable and incapable of self-protection regarding the matter at issue.
2. No, because Tendler’s conduct was not “so outrageous in character, and so extreme in degree, as to go beyond all possible bounds of decency.”
Court’s Reasoning
The court reasoned that while a fiduciary relationship exists when one party has a duty to act for the benefit of another, Marmelstein’s general assertions were insufficient to establish Tendler as a fiduciary beyond an ordinary clergy-congregant relationship. The court emphasized that pleading a breach of fiduciary duty requires articulating specific facts demonstrating “de facto control and dominance” by the cleric, rendering the congregant “uniquely vulnerable and incapable of self-protection.” Marmelstein’s allegations indicated voluntary consent to the sexual relationship based on her belief it would help her find a husband, showing deception but not the surrender of her will. The court distinguished this case from situations involving sexual contact with a minor, where consent is impossible. Regarding intentional infliction of emotional distress, the court found Tendler’s conduct not outrageous enough to meet the high standard required for such a claim, quoting Murphy v American Home Prods. Corp., stating the conduct must be “so outrageous in character, and so extreme in degree, as to go beyond all possible bounds of decency . . . and [was] utterly intolerable in a civilized community.” The court also noted concerns about First Amendment entanglement, avoiding the need to assess religious doctrine in evaluating Tendler’s conduct.