Commissioner of Social Services v. Philip De G., 44 N.Y.2d 166 (1978)
A parent is not automatically obligated to support a child over 18 who voluntarily leaves home against the parent’s wishes to live with a paramour, even if the child receives public assistance; the court retains discretion based on family dynamics and potential injustice.
Summary
This case addresses whether a father can be compelled by the Department of Social Services to support his 18-year-old daughter who voluntarily left home against his wishes to live with her boyfriend and have a child, subsequently receiving public assistance. The court held that the father was not obligated to provide support under these circumstances. The decision emphasizes the importance of considering the family relationship and potential injustice when determining parental support obligations, even when public assistance is involved, recognizing the daughter’s voluntary abandonment of parental control.
Facts
The respondent’s daughter, born in 1956, lived with her father after her parents’ divorce. In early 1974, she told her cousin she planned to leave home, live with her boyfriend, and have a child, intending to support herself through public assistance. She left home shortly after turning 18 in October 1974. After a brief return home, she eventually moved in permanently with her unemployed boyfriend in the spring of 1975. She gave birth to a child out of wedlock in the fall of 1975 and subsequently applied for and received public assistance for herself and her child.
Procedural History
In February 1976, the Commissioner of Social Services of Orange County initiated a proceeding in Family Court to compel the respondent to contribute to his daughter’s support, pursuant to Social Services Law § 101-a(3). The Family Court dismissed the petition, finding the daughter had emancipated herself. The Appellate Division unanimously affirmed, citing Matter of Roe v Doe. The Commissioner of Social Services then appealed to the New York Court of Appeals.
Issue(s)
Whether the Department of Social Services can compel a father to support his daughter, who is over 18 and receiving public assistance, after she voluntarily left home against his wishes to live with her paramour and have a child.
Holding
No, because the court retains discretion in determining support obligations, considering the impact on the family relationship and potential for injustice, and because the daughter voluntarily abandoned the parent’s home against the father’s reasonable wishes.
Court’s Reasoning
The court reasoned that while Social Services Law generally obligates parents to support children until age 21, this obligation is not absolute when the child is receiving public assistance. Citing Family Court Act § 415, the court emphasized its discretionary power to determine a fair and reasonable contribution for support, considering the needs of the petitioner and the circumstances of the case. The court distinguished this case from situations involving abandoned or abused children, highlighting that the father had consistently supported his daughter, encouraged her education, and accepted her back after absences. The court noted that the daughter’s choice to leave home against her father’s wishes to pursue a particular lifestyle did not automatically obligate him to financially support that choice. The court stated, “We simply hold that under these circumstances the courts below could properly refuse to compel him to pay for her support when she chose to leave home to live with her paramour.” The decision also referenced the state’s policy of fostering family integrity, which would be undermined by forcing the father to underwrite a lifestyle his daughter chose against his reasonable wishes.